I’m not normal. Are you?

When you look at me, you’d have no idea that I was anything but a relatively young, financially stable, healthy male (even if some who see me in public think I am a "Islamic" terrorist but that's another story for another day). If you talked to me you might think I was intelligent but hardheaded. You might think it rude of me to be so blunt (I've been called "challenging") or not get up for a woman or child on the bus. After all, you don't really know that much about me if you've never met me before so all you have to go on are your expectations, hopes, dreams, fears, insecurities and the norms we have been taught.

The truth is that in pretty much all aspects of my life, I don’t fit the stereotype or norms. I’m Jewish and religious but I don't wear a skullcap and I'm non-Zionist, I’m not typically "masculine", I’m a pacifist and also an anarchist, I don’t believe in answering the question "Where are you from?", I don’t eat meat, poultry or shellfish but I do eat certain fish. I’m from a middle class family, I have a university education and I’ve travelled the world over, but I’ve also been homeless more than once. Those are just some of…